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Apologetics

Adoption


Facts

Biblical arguments

Adoption by cohabiting heterosexual couples and homosexual couples is radically opposed to the Judaeo-Christian family ethic which views marriage as the only right context for sexual relations and the procreation of children.

The book of Genesis states: “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh”.5 Parenthood is male and female. Children need male and female role models. The fifth of the Ten Commandments enshrines this.6

In Christian understanding, children are not possessions but a gift from God. There is no ‘right’ to have children. To “Be fruitful and multiply”7 is the normal expectation of marriage, though it is recognised that not all married couples can have children. Having children is one of the three purposes of marriage universally recognised across the Christian Churches.8

Procreation is tied to marriage. Children are not to be spawned in random relations, but begotten in arrangements in which their parents are bound to their offspring by the ties of law as well as nature. The intention is for parents to be as committed to the nurture of their children as they are as committed to each other as husband and wife.

Marriage is best for raising children

Key points

“I’m not in favour of gay couples seeking to adopt children because I question whether that is the right start in life. We should not see children as trophies. Children, in my judgement, and I think it’s the judgement of almost everyone including single parents, are best brought up where you have two natural parents in a stable relationship. There’s no question about that. What we know from the evidence is that, generally speaking, that stability is more likely to occur where the parents are married than where they are not.”

The Rt Hon Jack Straw MP, when Home Secretary (4 November 1998, on the Today Programme)